"About one in twenty-five individuals are sociopathic, meaning, essentially that they do not have a conscience. It is not that this group fails to grasp the difference between good and bad; it is that the distinction fails to limit their behavior. The intellectual difference between right and wrong does not bring on the emotional sirens and flashing blue lights, or the fear of God, that it does for the rest of us. Without the slightest blip of guilt or remorse, one in twenty-five people can do anything at all."
"Conscience propels us outward in the direction of other people, toward conscious action both minor and great. Attachment-based conscience causes the teenage mother to buy the little jar of creamed peas instead of her favorite fingernail polish. Conscience protects the privileges of intimacy, makes friends keep their promises, prevents the angered spouse from striking back. It induces the exhausted doctor to pick up the phone for his frightened patient at three in the morning. It blows whistles against institutions when lives are endangered. It takes to the street to protest a war. Conscience is what makes the human rights worker risk her very life. When it is combined with surpassing moral courage, it is Mother Teresa, Mahatma Gandhi, Nelson Mandela, Aung San Suu Kyi."
"In small and large ways, genuine conscience changes the world. Rooted in emotional connectedness, it teaches peace and opposes hatred and saves children. It keeps marriages together and cleans up rivers and feeds dogs and gives gentle replies. It makes individual lives better and increases human dignity overall. [...] The problem [...] is that not everybody has it. In fact, 4 percent of all people do not have it."
Martha Stout, Ph.D.: The Sociopath Next Door
I'm reading this light little book by clinical psychologist Martha Stout, in which she discusses the typical traits of sociopathy and provides a guide to identifying individuals without a conscience. Sociopathy or antisocial personality disorder is a mental health condition that often goes undetected in ordinary people. Contrary to popular belief, sociopathy doesn't necessarily entail aggression and blood lust and while sociopathic murderers are the most notorious monsters, statistics shows that most sociopaths are not violent criminals. In fact, most sociopaths blend into society and quietly wreak havoc as backstabbing coworkers, mean teachers, cruel caregivers, abusive spouses, corrupt politicians, or ruthless businessman. They manipulate, exploit, and violate the rights of others without feeling any guilt or remorse about it. If Dr. Stout's statistics are right, and 4 percent of the population is sociopathic, than it is more common than anorexia, schizophrenia and colon cancer. Of course, the fabric of the human psyche is intricate and one doesn't have to be conscienceless to do unscrupulous or cruel things, it is enough to view someone as an "other", for example, who falls outside of our moral universe where our moral rules don't apply. However, while reading Dr. Stout's book, I couldn't help but think about all the utterly corrupt, soul-less, unscrupulous going-ons in politics and economics and I found myself stop asking the question "How can these people sleep at night?"
7 comments:
ok, so, i'm a bit worried your last post was for me. i'm hoping this one isn't for me, too? ;-)
good topic. I've actually always been annoyed by people who keep thinking that the forceful display of emotions, feelings, disapproving lecture would actually evoke some guilt in those who make it a lifestyle to use people. I know such individuals at work and in family and I never had a doubt whether they slept like a baby. Maybe because on a limited scale I can relate, indifference comes naturally to me. On the other hand, would you say sociopaths have no choice, but to be the way they are? Or is there a choice along the lines? I say let's feel bad for sociopaths. Laci
I have always believed that there is an innate kinship between the sociopath and the narcissist. For both only the SELF exists and the rest of mankind/ earth's resources exist only to be used by that SELF for gratification of primitive needs. That's why they sleep well...nothing of value exists except themselves, I believe the number is actually higher than 1 in 25. Why people are like this is a question whose answer has always evaded me. Best to ya...I gotta get this book!
I bet if a study was done among politicians, heads of large businesses and other powerful people, the ratio of sociopaths would be massively higher. In order to get into these positions, they will have had to do very questionable things many times over. This is one of the reasons I have an inate distrust of those in power
I love you so much. You might be the only person I know who has the life she has and still makes time to read such a book and find it fascinating (I'm maybe the other person!).
That's scary- knowing this in the back of my mind I'm going to start categorizing people now. I can already think of a few! Yuk.
I like that you title this "Conscience" because although some people seem to be born sociopaths, there is such a frighteningly broad range, from the kind of individual who is capable of manifesting a very sympathetic stance and yet is stunningly selfish, to the unspeakable mass horrors of which there are so many examples,
Hutu and Tutsi or the Holocaust. I read a compilation of diary entries of adolescent girls in 19th century America, full of a kind of moral self-examination and the desire to strengthen such qualities as modesty and patience. I don't think these would be encouraged in most Western societies now, especially for women. Instead, there
was the "assertiveness training" movement of a few decades ago, seen at the time as a necessary corrective. I'm not sure what that has morphed into, but violence and
self-assertion/self-esteem and acquisitiveness are now culturally promoted in every conceivable way.
As the economy becomes more and more difficult and resources more scarce, I wonder if a resurgence of
moral questioning will even be possible, when so much social and psychological conditioning is tilted toward sociopathic behavior. I find myself using the word "dystopian" far too often lately.
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