I spent yesterday vigorously cleaning the house and baking Hungarian cheese biscuits and cinnamon roles while Izzy had fun on the beach with her nurse, not so much because I'm a domestic goddess who uses her respite hours for household chores, but because I needed the distraction and the self-soothing comfort of the repetitive motions these activities offer. Izzy is starting school on Monday, which is wonderful and I'm really excited for her between the sudden anxiety attacks that come over me when I think about it. We will ease her into the school routine and start out with short days so for the first couple weeks I will walk her to school and pick her up. The school is at the same location as the facility where she has been receiving physical and occupational therapy since before her first birthday and it is a wonderful place with a wonderful staff.
Last week we had our first IEP meeting (i.e. individualized educational program, for the uninitiated) to establish the goals and services for the year, and while it was a heavy duty one with 15 attendants, it went very smoothly without any bloodshed. I felt blessed to be able to send Izzy to a school where I can not only trust the expertise of the staff but I can also trust that they want the best for my daughter. Izzy's teacher dropped into the meeting to introduce herself and she was this fairy godmother with a golden aura and an air of mischief about her. You could see twinkles in her eyes and hear her wings softly flap when she talked about her class. So, Monday morning, I will load up Izzy's wheelchair with her new bumblebee-bagpack, portable suction machine, binoculars and camouflage equipment, the latter two are for my hideout in the school parking lot.
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Oh wow, what a huge step for both you and Izzy! I hope it will all go smoothly. Her teacher sounds like a wonderful person, it makes me happy to read this! *hugs*
I am a bit puzzled, however. Does school really start that early in the US or is it more like some kind of kindergarten?
Anyway, soo excited for you!!!
This will be a whole new world for both of you---and what a wonderful, positive first impression of her teacher!
You are too cute, erika! Lots of parents don the binoculars & camo in the beginning - including me!
I am pleased to read there was no bloodshed at the IEP meeting. When the transition involves no new geography and a fairy godmother - well, looks like all will live happily ever after!
Wow! This is a big huge step (for both of you). I am not sure I could imagine the feelings you are having about all of this. My only way of relating is being nervous for friends, which i know isn't exactly the same thing. But I'm so glad about how you described the teacher, I like her already, just from your description! This might sound cheesy, but I'm with you in this. I mean, yeah, I know I'm not there, but I'm thinking about it, thinking about you, praying for you all. I'm with you!
Will be thinking of Izzy on Monday (and you, waiting it out in the bushes).
exciting scary exciting scary exciting scary...
I don't think I got much done the first few weeks (months) Dimitri was in a day class, stood around unable to focus waiting for him to get home :). Should have gone for the binoculars and camouflage!
Oh, Lord. I can't wait for Monday -- to hear all about it. Maybe you should have Phil dress you up in camo-- I remember his Halloween costume skills were quite impressive!
I am so excited I am ready to pop. She is going to love this. I just know it. Erika, on the other hand will take some adjustment. But you will love it too, moms just take a longer time. I really will be there -- certain times I am sure my spirit is almost visable I am thinking of you guys so much. lots of love, hugs, kisses and prayers, mom
I also imagine that you you will place a video recorder in her backpack, a web cam placed surreptitious in the room . . .I'm sure that Izzy will have a great experience with many kind people attending and caring for her. I also know that if someone screws up, the wrath of mom will be there......
Best wishes on this next, really big step.
Hope it goes well for both of you! :)
That is so great that Izzy has a good school to go to and a good teacher. It makes all the difference.
Love and prayers.
Wishing a smooth start to school on Monday!!! With lots of love!!!
Such a huge milestone - I imagine you will be having quite a rollercoaster of emotions until you're convinced she's settled into the new routine.
Wishing you all the best :)
glad it went well. good luck!! (to both of you) :)
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