I really don't care for Valentine's Day; or rather, I should say I don't care for the surrounding commercial hype that either makes you feel bad for being single or puts pressure on you to spend money if you are in a relationship. I don't have intimacy issues and I fully support people's rights to express their romantic feelings for each other in various ways, including the exchange of heart-shaped balloons and stuffed animals manufactured in questionable Chinese factories, I just don't like to be pressured or manipulated into anything. However, our quirky habit to express our romantic love in memory of the murder of some obscure Christian martyr served me well yesterday, when Izzy's First Day of School coincided with the Valentine's Day Dance to which all parents were invited. Therefore, after emphatically asking Phil not to get me anything for Valentine's Day (since he gets me flowers and chocolate regularly on non-Valentine's days), I turned around and attended the Valentine's Day Dance with great enthusiasm. Of course commemorating the murder of some obscure Christian martyr with balloons, heart-shaped decoration an a merry festivity is a perfectly reasonable affair when it involves a group of adorable little kids with all kinds of disabilities and special needs and gives me the excuse to spend an extra hour with my daughter on her first day of school. Since we are easing Izzy into her new school career and she only spends three hours in class the first couple weeks, I was allowed to spend the remaining time in the school's lobby. I vowed that I wouldn't cause any disturbance and then happily sat in the hall while Izzy had circle time with the speech therapist and worked on some Valentine's Day craft project. She was all smiles when she came out of the classroom with glitter on her face. My assessment of Izzy's teacher was correct: she is indeed a fairy godmother, and I'm wondering to whom I can talk about possibly cloning her. While Izzy was in her reserved observation mode yesterday, her shyness greatly decreased today according to the official sources, which was also confirmed by my informants. When I picked the Bean up during lunch break, she had a ginormous smile on her glowing face, she was sitting up straight in her wheelchair beaming contentment, vocalizing and making happy sounds. I had about an hour and a half at home before I had to return to the school to bring Izzy home, and I spent the first couple minutes aimlessly wandering around, wondering what I should do with all this time that I suddenly had for myself. It was just enough time to call our insurance company to sort out some issues. I really know how to have fun.
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I'm glad she was all happy smiles! And I'm glad about the fairy godmother teacher, too. It makes me happy to read this!
Rooting for you and Izzy! Happy Saint Decapitation Day!
I completely agree about all obligatory-money-spending holidays,
but these first successful tastes of school for both you and Izzy are indeed something to celebrate!
Oh? Today is Valentine's Day? Thanks for the reminder...I've been overwhelmed by hearts and flowers all around, news, stores, etc. Someone is making a bundle and so many people are left out...Anyway, I am truly happy that mom survived Izzy's first day in school. I have no doubt that Izzy is far less anxious than mom...good staff will remove those anxieties.
WONDERFUL news!
Okay, I'm smiling at my computer screen :) Wonderful news in a funny post, Izzy looks so grown up in the photo! Dimitri regularly comes home with glitter in his hair, it's a bugger to get out :) So happy for you!!
jaj, de jo! Orulok, hogy ilyen jol telt neki! Bar tudtam, hogy elvezni fogja! Olyan kis ugyes social butterfly, ketseg sem fer hozza, hogy nagy bulinak tartja a sulit! :)
Oh, how wonderful that Izzy is so much enjoying herself at school!! You must be so very happy!
And I do love her teacher without knowing her. Your description lights up a halo before my inner eye!
Erika! Nagyszerű hír! Örülök, hogy Izzy foglalkozásokra járhat, hogy ilyen jó tanárt kapott, hogy ilyen jól érzi magát. Biztos vagyok benne, hogy neki is szüksége van erre, neked pedig jót fog tenni egy kis kikapcsolódás!
That smile tells you everything! So glad she's loving it and hopefully you will start to feel comfortable leaving her and having some YOU timexx
So glad she's setting in :)
We don't bother to commemorate the murder of some obscure Christian martyr in our house, as the date has been trumped by Meg's birthday, which is considered infinitely more important :)
As a restauranteur we love V-Day, we capitalize on it. As a person, I also feel manipulated and dislike it. so it's love/hate for me!
What really makes me happy though is hearing how Izzy is thriving, and how YOU had extra time to yourself! Even if you did use it to call insurance!
i agree with your Valentines Day sentiments! Esp. the oddity of celebrating a "obscure Christian martyr with balloons" LOL!
photo is absolutely adorable! glad she is adjusting well to school. so happy for you both! :)
So glad tohear good news from you!! So happy for all of you!!
Sandra Taylor told me about your blog, and I'm enjoying your posts. How exciting that your daughter has such a lovely teacher.
(BTW, I feel exactly the same way about Valentine's Day.)
That is wonderful to hear! She looks so happy!
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